Well I just found out that as of yesterday, I am officially divorced from the man I married three times. Ironically, our 3rd divorce happened on the 10th anniversary of our 2nd marriage. I'm sure there is some symbolism in there someplace. I feel a certain amount of relief at the end of this long long journey. I just hope that the rest of the people involved feel some relief and can find ways to let go of the past and move forward to be happy. That's all I have to say right now.